I wouldn’t blame Kayla for saying “Enough already!” But, she loves talking about it as much as we do. Yes, Kayla, Mike,and I talk a lot about her budding relationship with Michaud.
While it seems Michaud is good with a “let’s deal with it when it happens” mindset, Kayla wants to be prepared. She appreciates our help talking through how she might handle the potential pitfalls. We’ve probably gone through a hundred “What if’s…?” Not that playing “what if” is perfect. It’s hard to really know what you feel when something is abstract and you’re thinking, “that will never happen.” But it is still a nice bonding experience because you can talk about difficult scenarios while in a calm and loving state of mind. Of course, when it’s “real” you have to deal with judgement that may be blurred or influenced by high emotions. While imperfect conjecture, we found it helping talking through “what if’s?”
We’ve only experienced Michaud through Kayla’s eyes. We haven’t met him, but thus far he sounds like a good fit for her. We have purposely avoided meeting him right now. We think it is best to let Kayla and Michaud create the foundation of their relationship on their own. Mike and I are going to be a big enough presence anyway, so we are sensitive to trying to give them their own space to carve out. We figure making him meet us or having him hang out with us would just make it harder for their relationship to solidify.
Kayla said he is laid back, easy-going, non-judgmental, with a dry and somewhat sarcastic sense of humor. He doesn’t seem to sweat the small stuff. She describes him as having beautiful dreamy eyes, thick eyelashes that say “come to me” when he blinks. We’ve seen pictures and he is good looking.
I asked Kayla about the logistics of cam’ing. (Mike gave permission for her to have cam sex with Michaud, Post 188. The Cock Block…). I get the getting naked and playing with yourself, but, how do you start? Kayla said she never done it. She’s done some nude pics before, and showed her breasts on face time, but never did video sex with anyone. She’s a cam-virgin! She said she would probably just say, “So, wanna see me naked?” She will do a strip tease for him, and once naked, ask him to undress. From there, yeah, just show off the bod and masturbate for each other.” Of course, I don’t know why I was over thinking it.
LIGHTS, CAMERA, ACTION
Mike and I could hear her in her room while she cam’d with Michaud. We were tempted to peak but we resisted. He could hear muffled sounds of their voices when they talked, and could clearly discern the sound of her orgasm. Eventually they said goodbye and signed off.
Kayla came to our room and Mike and I were in bed, but awake. We asked her how it went and she said, “Great.” My response was, “And?” To which she replied, “And I enjoyed it.” Again I questioned, “And?” She gave another coy response of “And I think he enjoyed it too?”
Then she burst out giggling like a school girl and said, “and he has a nice cock!” “And he is uncircumcised.” Kayla had never seen an uncircumcised penis, at least not live (or in this case, live on camera). Neither have I! “So how big?” I had to know. Maybe a little bigger than Mike, but a little skinnier. Kind of like John’s, but maybe a little smaller, so yeah, like in-between Mike and John.”
“And,” she added, “he was very manscaped. Not completely shaved, but a very close trim. I told him it looked great.” And she said Michaud commented on her bush, which, wasn’t trimmed at all. Neither Kayla or I haven’t trimmed or shaved our pubic hair since our Immersion, about four months ago. Mike told us to grow it out. No particular reason other than he wanted to “change up the view.” Kayla said she has never had this much hair down their. She said she has been trimming or shaving since she first started growing pubes. I think that’s pretty typical for millennials.
Anyway, she said Michaud immediately reacted with a “Wow, I wasn’t expecting that?” He wasn’t complaining, just surprised. Just as Kayla has never had a boyfriend with an uncircumsized penis, he had never had a girlfriend with a full bush. And I use the term “full” a bit loosely. Kayla’s not that hairy of a person, and it looks just “normal,” not wild and crazy full.
MIKE MADE ME DO IT
In keeping with Mike’s instructions, Kayla told Michaud that she grew it out because Mike commanded it. I previously shared that Mike told Kayla that if there any actions of hers that she did that were due to his demands, she must admit this to Michaud and not hide it or sugar coat it by making it seem like it was her choice or preference. I was very impressed that Kayla remembered this.
It was clearly an awkward moment to have to say something like that. Kayla said it did cause a temporary “buzz kill” to the mood. They spent some time talking about it. She was naked, they were talking about her bush, and he was still clothed, and they are talking about Mike’s requirements of her. Awkward probably doesn’t come close. But they got through it.
Michaud said, “Damn, is there anything about you that Mike doesn’t control?” To which Kayla said, “Michaud, I can hear from your tone that this bothers you. Thank you for saying something as I want to explain and help you get comfortable with this because you will likely hear it a lot. It is who I am and I know it is a difficult thing to ask of you, but for us to work I need all parts of me to be appreciated, even the parts you may not be part of. She went on to restate things she has told him before about her need to be Mike’s submissive. And they talked about it for about ten minutes.
This reminds me of an analogy I used to explain the conclusion I made about my sister’s questions about my dynamic. It would be easy for me to get frustrated explaining the same thing over and over to my sisters. Then I realized that in many ways, getting comfortable with my kink is a lot like learning a new language. You need repetition to understand it better. This helped me maintain my patience in answering their questions, which were (and still are) often repetitive. Sharing this analogy with Kayla helped her be prepared for Michaud’s repeat questions. The last thing you want is the questioner,who is already a bit frustrated, to be answered by someone who is equally annoyed.
She gave Michaud another way to think of Mike. She said, “Think of Mike a bit like my psychologist or some specialty doctor.” If she was seeing a specialist that was uniquely able to help her with something that Michaud could not, that isn’t a short coming for Michaud. His role in her life is still cherished and valued – but in ways that are different from Mike and from me and again, it reflects her “special” needs and not anything that is wrong with Michaud.
It obviously wasn’t that much of a buzzkill as they eventually go back to “business.” I am sure that won’t be the last time she needs to reassure him. And maybe soon it will be during cam sex, minus the cam!