Mike was out-of-town last weekend and he invited Matt to stay at our house. It was odd having Matt sleep in our bed. The first night the three of us (me, Matt, Kayla) slept together. It had been awhile since we had done this as Matt said some time ago that he only wanted to sleep with me going forward. He was open to changing that up for special occasions. Oh the sacrifice! hee hee
Mike gave us two specific requirements while he was gone –
- WAAA rules in effect. Back in October we added some rules we call “When we Are Apart Activities.” “Waaa!!!!” Cute, huh? When Mike is traveling we will face-time just before going to bed. I am naked, administer a self spanking, and am ready for any other instructions he may give. The call ends with me saying my evening mantra and I am not to speak any more that night.
- Sex. We were to accommodate any of Matt’s desires that were within our limits.
Matt knows I am disciplined – but he has never witnessed it. I asked Mike to not punish me in front of Matt. It’s difficult to explain – it’s like my relationship with Matt is not at all about discipline and I don’t want him to be a part of/witness to it. That part of me is part of my relationship with Mike, not Matt. My relationship with Matt is about sex and companionship (and more sex), not discipline. When I asked Mike not to punish me in front of Matt, his answer was, “then don’t give me reason to.” While not the answer I sought, to be honest, his answer really tickles my submissive-spot.
MIKE’S EXPECTATIONS
I asked Mike for his WAAA expectations regarding Matt’s presence. Btw, the DD Assembly on Submissive Tactics and Measures (known as the AssTM committee) gave me a special commendation for this. As the Submissive Handbook states, “It is acceptable for submissives to make a request of their Dom to clarify intent; however, it is more thoughtful and submissive of the sub to, prior to making their own request, first ask their Dom if the Dom has any specific expectations of their submissive.” Okay, where were we? oh yeah…
Mike expected to have our WAAA session but with a few modifications. I could do it in the bathroom with the door closed but was not to make Matt leave the bedroom. It was up to me if I wanted to explain anything to Matt. I was also allowed to speak after our WAAA but I must text Mike with the mantra before I went to sleep and that I could not talk once I sent the text. As for the morning WAAA, I was not to speak to Matt or anyone until it was completed. (We do have some exceptions for talking to J if J wakes up before I do).
EVENING WAAA!
It was easier to explain the WAAA to Matt instead of trying to hide it. I told him I would be in the bathroom for the session. Matt was sweet. He sensed I was uneasy and offered to wait in the living room until it was over. Technically I think I could have taken him up on the offer, but I felt it wasn’t in the spirit of what Mike intended. Mike’s statement implied he didn’t want me to inconvenience Matt in any way. Plus, I just earned that nice commendation by ASSTM and didn’t want to risk recission… hee-hee. I told Matt he was welcomed to stay in the bedroom.
It was about ten or so and Matt, Kayla, and I had already had sex. As Matt and I laid in the bed watching tv, Kayla had her WAAA session with Mike. I paid attention to the sounds coming from the bathroom. You couldn’t make out what was being said, but the self-spanking sounds were distinctive. Oh well, that’s the way it had to be. It felt a little awkward when Kayla emerged from the bedroom. I struggled for something to say and said something like, “Come and keep the bed warm as it’s my turn now.”
I face-timed with Mike and he had me put on nipple clamps as we talked. I then had to insert a butt plug after I administered my self spankings. We then continued to talk. When we were done, I recited the mantra and we ended our call. I removed the accouterments, washed up, and returned to the bedroom where Kayla was giving Matt a blow job. It made for a better transition than what Kayla had. I said something like, “Oh, goody!” and I eagerly joined in the fun!
It was probably about 1:30 before I texted Mike with the mantra. Yeah, it was about three hours of sex! (Mike let us stay up past our bedtime – how nice!) It wasn’t non-stop, we all had to catch our breath here and there – but it was intense. More on that in a bit.
MORNING WAA!
I told Matt, “Good morning.” It quickly dawned on me I messed up. Crap!
I didn’t say anything else and I went to the bathroom and called Mike. I recited the mantra before saying anything else. I confessed my screw up and Mike told me to go get Kayla. I did so (and she recited her morning Mantra to him), and he told Kayla to spank me for my speaking to Matt before saying my mantra. In keeping with the typical discipline I receive when it has to do with something I say, I was fully expecting our “traditional” mouth soaping. Thankfully, Mike didn’t order it as he was satisifed with just the spanking.
It has been a long time since Kayla has spanked me as part of a real discipline session (Post 251 was more fun than discipline). Despite this, I had no odd feelings about it. I guess it is because it was practical for Mike to administer it. Also, I can close my eyes and it still feels as if Mike is doing it. I can still feel submissive when Kayla spanks me – but it is much harder to do so when I have to spank Kayla. Anyway – yeah, I got a pretty hard spanking, enough that I know my butt was very red.
It was another one of those conflicted feelings. I really didn’t like Matt seeing my spanked butt – but – having him see it was like this proclamation of my submission to Mike, which I really loved. Matt didn’t comment and didn’t seem to go out of his way to get a good look, but I know he saw it.
BTW, while my dress code is no pants – dresses and skirts – if J is home and we have to cover due to a spanking, Mike allows us to wear shorts around the house (stay topless). J wasn’t home as he spent the weekend at T1’s and E’s (which was a very big deal and milestone for him). Anyway, it kept us from having to play cloak and daggar regarding the condition our butts or the sleep-over guest.
SEX
What of our sex? Inquirying minds want to know. Well, it was all the one-on-one and threesome combo’s that you can probably imagine. We told Matt we were there to serve his fantasies. We even had to break out a few of the toys! It was a lot of fun for all of us. Let your imagination run wild!
Domestic Discipline, Jenny style! 