I didn’t set off to be a teller of Kim’s story. I wanted to share her background because it was interesting to me and before you know it, I overshared a bit. Oh well, too late now.
But finally, this will bring you up to where things are today.
So about a month or so after Kim watched us have sex, she sat down with me all excited and energized. She said she believes she has worked the kinks out – oh, wait, not a good choice of words as the kinks have been worked in, not worked out. Ahem. She believes she has resolved her hang-ups with sex. In her words, “I had a revelation!”
I already mentioned that Kim started masturbating regularly. She soon told her husband he could watch, after all, she had been watching him masturbate for years. That led to them having sex, and more sex. More in a week than they had in the prior year. And Kim said it was different than any sex they previously had. She was not only the one initiating it for the first time ever, but actually directing it. Telling her husband to do this, or do that. She said it was the first time she felt like SHE was having sex. That it was something she was doing, not something simply being done to her.
And her revelation? Actually, there were two.
- She enjoys being in control. And more than that, she enjoyed a dominant role in the bedroom. And apparently, TJ was happy to oblige, or more precisely, submit! This didn’t change her mindset out of the bedroom. Nothing changes in day-to-day life, but she became the master of their bedroom domain.
- She loves watching others. More precisely, she enjoys watching us, but the thought of watching anyone turns her one. As much as I am an exhibitionist, she is a voyeur. And she added, “And I think it is more than to just watch. The thought of directing people and telling them what to do to each other really turns me on.
Kim said it was strange for her to say something turns her on sexually. The idea of it is so foreign to her as well as a thrill for her. She said she not only is able to let loose in the bedroom but can’t wait to do so. She gets turned on just thinking about it. Such a feeling is completely new to her – not that she is complaining!!
MORE THAN A FEELING
Kim said it goes just beyond “feeling it.” She has this drive to act on it. Something she never ever felt before, even remotely.
This led me to ask, “It’s great to hear that TJ is onboard and willing to accept a role in the bedroom that also suits you. As for liking to watch others or even directing others, do you have something in mind with how you can fulfill that? And yes, I am willing to ask Mike if we can submit our application to you.”
Kim served up her best Jen-like response that made me smile.
“Well, your credentials are good and you seem to be a good fit – culturally speaking of course. You have clearly shown you can work well in a team environment and go into a project with a well-defined entry and exit plan. Yes, you all can definitely fill a lot of holes. From what I’ve seen, you have great manual skills. I don’t know your writing skills, but we aren’t really in need of that. It’s your excellent oral skills that I value. To top it off, your interest and excitement level is infectious. Oh! Oops, that’s probably not a good word to use. Your interest and excitement level is superb! Yeah, that’s better. If you submit your application I can talk with TJ and see what comes of it.”
“So,” I replied, “this is one job opportunity I don’t want to blow. Oh wait. Maybe I do? Whatever. You know you can count on me to bend over backwards, or forwards if you like, to get the blow. . . um, I mean, to get the job done.”
See why I Kim and I get along? We have very similar humor.
THE GROUP TEASE
Ultimately, after Kim and TJ talked and I talked with Mike and Kayla, here’s where things are. We are NOT having sex with Kim and TJ, but, they do have sex in front of us, and us in front of them. There’s been some steamy play that seems to point toward an inevitable exploration into some swapping, but it hasn’t happened yet. I think we are all enjoying getting right up to the line but not crossing it just yet. We refer to it as a “group tease.” Each of us sort of sexually teasing the other to see who can be enticed to cave first. It’s a really fun game that we all enjoy.
Kim is definitely a bit of a dom in the bedroom with TJ. She has a new favorite toy, a strap on, that TJ is into accepting from her. She definitely likes to be in control and have the power in the bedroom. And it’s so great to see her comfortable and confident in demonstrating and exploring that desire. Kim and TJ have even joined us at John and Donna’s a few times.
Oh, and Matt has a girlfriend who is also part of our Circle of Trust. And Raul and Valerie make an occasional guest appearance, and like Kim and TJ they don’t swap but they definitely have plenty of sexual fun.
Who needs FetLife or a swingers club? We have our homegrown sex club!
Orgy for 11! Your table is ready!