OMG! What a fantastic vacation!
THE NUDIST RESORT
We were gone June 8 – June 14. The “we” included the four of us (me, Mike, Kayla, and J), as well as T1 and his fiance’ E, and T2 and his girlfriend, that we will call G. It was amazing because it has been a long time since all us vacationed together – and we got to meet more of E’s family, including her parents – and of course, most of all, because we did it all at a nudist resort.
I could dedicate an entire post on how fantastic it was. I think it is more effective to simply say – YOU NEED TO VISIT A NUDIST RESORT AT LEAST ONCE IN YOUR LIFE. It was powerful, it was moving, it was liberating, it was bonding, it was simply incredible. And yes, it is very addicting. So much so that Mike declared us a clothing optional household! Yes, we are officially naturists! We were pretty much already there, (Post 250. The Nude Normal), but now we are 100% there.
One of the major factors in this is J. We can’t explain it, but his anxiety levels are extremely low when he and everyone is naked. I know he has always had a hyperactive tactile response issues regarding texture of clothing or even food, but it never dawned on me those responses impact his moment-to-moment anxiety. It wouldn’t be an exaggeration to say he is a different person when nude. Whatever the reason, I’ll take it!
It was also fantastic to just be ourselves – not in a naked way, but in a relationship way. We didn’t hide our relationship with Kayla from anyone. While I know a few people found it off-putting, overall everyone was accepting. I even had one of Kayla’s siblings tell me in confidence that they were part of a “secret” poly relationship. They felt emboldened by how open we were and were feeling more confident about soon “coming out” about it.
SUBMISSIVE TIME OUT
Mike told Kayla and I that he wanted us to take “time off” from being so focused on his needs. He did not want us catering to his needs or even cleaning up anything. He took care of keeping our unit clean and tidy. He even took charge of making sure J was taken care of and having a good time. Kayla and I were able to 100% relax.
Both Kayla and I agreed that being submissive to Mike is not just something we “do.” It is who we “are.” So there were times we both yearned for submission, but I admit it was nice to fully relax and not focus on taking care of every need and whim Mike had. It was nice of Mike to give us that. He actually enjoyed catering to our needs for a few days.
T1 and E had a great time as would be expected. I was happy that T2 decided to come as he tends to be more shy and reserved – and especially surprising that he brought his girlfriend, G. She had once been topless at a nude beach, but had never been to resort. They both seemed to enjoy it and T2 was a lot more engaging than I anticipated.
As for J, he had a blast. He got a lot of attention from E’s younger family members. J is this “older kid” who acts like he is so much younger, which gave him a certain “standing” amount the younger kids. J isn’t use to that since at school he is surrounded by kids his own age who tend to have vastly different interests than J does. And of course, J got to spend a lot of time with his girlfriend! We’ve made plans to have L come stay with us a few days so J can show her around our town.
I was amazed by attitudes of everyone we met, but especially the kids. I’ll spare you from another naturism rant, so suffice to say, society would be better off if social nudism was more accepted.
I will probably inject a vacation story or two here and there in subsequent posts, but I’ve been wanting to share an update on Matt, so, enough about nudism for now. I’ll share a post about the latest with Matt… next time.