I hope this post catches you up to the present day regarding our friendship with TJ and Kim. Sorry for taking so long to provide the background story. It was more detail than I intended to share and way more than I provided on Jamie and Chelsea. While both couples have unique stories worthy of multiple posts, I feel more connected to Kim. Jaime and Chelsea are more a Mike and Kayla thing. Kim has become a close friend of mine and an interesting one at that. Thus I want to give you a fuller picture of her.
ONE MORE PIECE OF BACKGROUND
One more factoid to share that I omitted from the prior post. Just a minor little thing that’s easy to forget. Ha!
TJ & Kim once lived in Georgia. Kim encouraged TJ to have an affair. Can you call it that when you have your wife’s consent and encouragement?
It was another example of how accepting Kim has been of her hang-ups as well as how much she cares for TJ. She was confident enough in their marriage to tell him he was free to find sexual fulfillment elsewhere. It also showed me she is not emotionally fragile and is so self-aware of her issues that she does not want her problems to cause her husband’s needs to be unfulfilled, even when it comes to his sexual needs.
She said at the time it seemed logical. She rationalized, “If I need help cleaning, I get a maid. If I need help sexually satisfying my husband, I get him a mistress. Either way, it takes a weight off my shoulders — or, in this case, — off my hips.”
That’s one of the many reasons I like Kim. Her humor is much like mine and I love to see her poke fun at her own predicament. Humor doesn’t minimize her struggle but serves to recognize and humanize it. I like her for a lot of other reasons too. We’ve really become good friends. Just how good? Wait to read, but I bet it’s not what you think!
TJ resisted but eventually got a regular girlfriend. Despite efforts to establish clear expectations between TJ and the mistress, after about six months it became clear that Sancha wanted more. The relationship soon bordered on stalking. Not quite “Fatal Attraction” level. No rabbits were harmed, but it got creepy enough that they had to do something. They moved to Texas where Kim is from originally. It’s been about 8 years and they said that moving was the end of any issues or contact with the other woman.
Okay, enough back story. (Hey! I heard someone say, “Finally!!” Admit it. It was you!)
So Kim sat in a chair near our bed and watched me have sex with Mike. We made it a point not to do anything overly pretzel-like. Good old missionary and doggie! Afterward, the three of us talked for a bit and at her urging, we gave her an encore presentation, this time with oral thrown in.
Kim couldn’t articulate her thoughts that she said were swirling. She wanted some time to process and understand them herself. We respected that and didn’t push her to share her thoughts.
Then she asked if we would be willing to let her watch Mike and Kayla, and even watch all three of us together. We joked that maybe we should be charging her for our sex shows.
“Add it to my therapy bill,” she quipped, once again fighting through her anxiety and embarrassment with some humor.
I added, “So I guess you’re not interested in any girl-on-girl action with just me and Kayla?”
And with an overly serious look and tone that feigned surprise, “What? You’re saying that during your threesomes you and Kayla never touch each other?”
I said to myself, “Oh, so you want to play, huh? En guarde.” I love this type of game.
Confident I would throw her off guard knowing she can only take so much direct sex talk about herself, I replied, “If by touch you mean touching my tongue deep inside her pussy and ass like TJ is going to soon be doing to you, then yes, we touch.”
She didn’t even flinch and just laughing said, “Then I expect you to eat some pussy and ass else you’ll be eating your words.”
Point to Kim. Well played!
And thus we soon had repeat private performances for Kim. First Mike and Kayla, and then the three of us. As for some of what she witnessed, let’s just say, I didn’t have to eat my words.
HER NEXT STEP
After cogitating on things for a few days, she reported to me that she was giving masturbation a try and already done it a few times. She said it was going great and while she doesn’t really orgasm, she feels herself getting close. My only comment to her was that I think masturbation is pretty simple. Explore every which way you can imagine that might make yourself feel good. When you find something feels good, do more of it. That’s it. And from the sounds of it, she was getting close to finding it.
HER STEP 2 – TTWD
She had often seen TJ masturbate as that was often his release and he didn’t hide it. But now, SHE was having TJ watch her go at it. It quickly led them to have sex. Not that they have been sexless, but up to this point sex was like a 6-8 times a year thing and she never initiated it.
This “masturbation then sex” soon became “their thing.” TTWD has to start somewhere! They would both start fully clothed, she would masturbate and end up naked, and then, well, the sparks would fly. She said she liked this because even though she was exposed and vulnerable when performing for him, she actually felt more in control and more powerful. She felt it as something SHE was doing, not something someone was doing to her. And once her juices were flowing, she was revved up to actually desire sex.
She said about the third time they had sex, she had her first orgasm. She said it felt different from the start. All day long she was looking forward to their little sex session. The anticipation had built up and from her first touch she noticed she was wetter than ever. It wasn’t long before she saw the fireworks.
In her words, “Wow. I thought I sorta’ knew and kinda’ had a few orgasms before. But there is no “sort of” or “kind of” to the real, full-blown, amazing, thing. The warmth, up my clitoris, up my belly, up my chest, up to my head. A whole-body convulsing experience. Who knew?”
My response was, “Welcome to the club!”
It didn’t stop there. She soon ordered a few vibrators and dildos for herself. She even got a vibrator for her daughter. I wrote before that Kim has tried hard to instill age-appropriate sex-positive attitudes with her daughters. There are many other examples I could share, but this one was a doozy. In some ways, Kim goes to the opposite extreme. While her parents filled her with a sense of shame, guilt, and taboo over anything sexual or about her body, her kids are like, “Oh, mom, not again. Do you really have to tell us that!”
Okay, okay. There I go again off on a tangent.
So, Kim is jilling away, having regular sex with TJ. “A year’s worth per week” as she put it. It was all good but was soon becoming a stale routine. That isn’t necessarily a bad thing IF you have the confidence and imagination to spice things up. At it was clear Kim now had both. She told me of her revelation that put her straight down the path of where she is today. And what was that revelation?
Sorry, not quite to the “current day” with the Kim saga as I had hoped. We are really close though. Maybe next post.