“Do you want to have sex with Matt?”
I almost replied with “Do you want me to have sex with Matt?” Luckily I caught myself because answering a question with a question would likely be considered disobedient. Mike especially dislikes a reply such as, “Whatever you want, Sir.” He finds such responses to be disrespectful, as if he doesn’t know that I am willing to obey his wishes. When he asks me a question, he wants me to accept it as stated and answer it accordingly.
“It hadn’t crossed my mind before and with your endorsement I would definitely want to have sex with him.” There, I think that was diplomatic in a submissive sort of way.
Matt is a long time friend of Mike’s. They worked together for many years before Matt left to work at another company. They often went on business trips together and were both involved in entertaining account reps, vendors, clients, etc. They got to know each other very well both in and outside the office.
They hadn’t been in frequent contact for a few years. There was the occasional “how’s it going” and a few times they met up for lunch here and there. They reconnected recently. Matt is now divorced, just turned 50, and currently not in a relationship.
“Okay then, I’ll look for the opportunity to make that happen.” And with that, the next day Mike tells me we will be going over to Matt’s place on our date night this weekend. He then asked me if I had any reservations or questions.
I told him I have no reservations. I said I was fully committed to being subject to his desires regarding anything he asks of me regarding sex, including sex with anyone he wishes either of us to have sex with. While not in the contract, I have voiced that the only exception is that I do not want either of us having sex with someone who is in a relationship when both parties aren’t aware of the sex. Mike agreed. We don’t want to get tangled up in complicating someone’s relationship.
I did have a couple of questions. I asked him what prompted this? He said it was nothing in particular. The thought of sharing me excited him and he believes Matt is the perfect guy to do this with. Mike has always enjoyed watching me, whether with John, Donna, Kayla, or by myself. And of course, I love being watched by him. And he rarely just watches – he almost always joins in.
I asked him if he talked to Matt about this yet. Was Matt even willing? I imagine it would be awkward for him. Mike said he has not talked to Matt, but is 100% certain he will be good with it. Mike wants it to be a surprise, so at this point he just told Matt that he and I want to drop by after we have dinner to just see his new place and say hello. Mike said that part of the excitement for him is in the unknown. While he expects it to be positive, Matt will clearly have a moment of “What’s going on here?” Mike simply told me to be prepared to follow his lead.
Lastly, I asked Mike if he would ask the same thing of Kayla? Mike said he hasn’t decided yet but assumes that at some point he will. By the way, in many of Kayla’s and Mike’s talks about her relationship with Michaud, Kayla has reiterated that she does not want Mike treating her any differently than before. She does not want Mike to consider Michaud’s feelings or concerns. She asked Mike to remain focused only on what he feels is best for her as his submissive.
Despite this, Mike did say that he would ask her more questions. While she almost certainty would agree to this, Mike wants her to at least think more deeply about it. Mike feels that it isn’t about him showing consideration for Michaud, but consideration for Kayla. The “single Kayla” has thrived under the sexual adventures she has been on. Would the “dating-Kayla” thrive as well? Mike takes his role seriously and it isn’t just about his own sexual gratification, but about whether it provides any fulfillment to Kayla.
MIKES DOM STYLE
This got me thinking more about Mike as a Dom. I focus a lot on what submission means to me, but have only briefly touched on what Dominance means to Mike. For him, being a Dom isn’t about “taking” from a submissive. It is about “giving” what the submissive desires regarding their submissiveness. It’s like I said before, I think for a submissive, it isn’t about simply finding a Dom, it is about finding the right Dom. If the match isn’t a good one, instead of feeling fulfilled, the submissive may feel disregarded or demeaned.
So, Matt is attractive, I enjoy his company, and have no qualms about having sex with him. The exhibitionist in me is excited, but, I am also a bit nervous knowing he isn’t aware that I will be his for the taking. How awkward is he rejects my advances! Also, just exactly how does Mike propose we go about it? All he would tell me is he has a plan that includes ever escalating innuendo and stages of my undress. Humm…. can’t wait!