It’s been awhile since I’ve shared a punishment story, so as promised in my last post, here you go!
This one is about Kayla (well not entirely as you will find out). I know as per Post 148, that Mike decreed that I was to no longer punish Kayla. Well, that lasted about six weeks, but perhaps may last longer next time.
Our son was visiting his cousins, Mike was out running errands, and Kayla and I were at Donna’s, just hanging out. Donna was sharing some of the things that John does to help around the house, “just because he wants to”, and of course Kayla was quick to brag on Mike. She proudly explained that Mike doesn’t have to do any chores, but he will occasionally empty the dishwasher or sweep the floor. Kayla then added, “and I know when Mike empties the dishwasher because he has a bad habit of leaving every cupboard and drawer open.”
My jaw dropped. You see, one of Kayla’s Acts of Service is to always talk complimentary of Mike to others – never criticize him in front of others. Kayla’s excuse was, “It’s just Donna.” I didn’t accept that. This was not in keeping with a submissive mindset and is something she not only agreed to adhere to, but it was her idea to do so. As such, she should know better and her flippant retort made it worse.
I felt that Mike would want to immediately address this. I sent him a short text and he called me. I put Kayla on the phone and had her explain it. That alone made her cry. Mike then put me back on the phone. I asked him that if he felt this should be quickly dealt with that I was willing to handle it. He paused and then said he didn’t want me to do anything if I felt it would “interfere with my peace.” I told him it would not, so long as I knew this is what he wanted. He then said yes, he wanted me to spank her a “sufficient” number of times and then Kayla should be “soaped” until he got home.
JEN SPANKS KAYLA
I borrowed a paddle from Donna and spanked Kayla right there in front of Donna. And to be honest, I spanked her really hard. She was crying, as she is apt to do from a spanking. She’s always been a crier, and while she doesn’t cry as much or as loudly as she used to, she was crying pretty good with this spanking. I then sent her home and told her to start writing lines until I got there. “I will always speak positively of Sir in front of others.”
JEN SPANKS KAYLA AGAIN
I waited about twenty minutes and then left Donna’s and returned home. I was shocked again to find her writing her lines but fully clothed. It is a long established rule that we disrobe when we enter the house if there are no kids expected. I guess I was on a roll as I had her disrobe and spanked her again. Again, very hard, and again, she cried.
I led her to the bathroom, got the soap, and lathered up her tongue and mouth and then had her bite down on the bar and hold it in her mouth. I told her to kneel in the corner and stay there until Mike got home.
Mike came home about forty minutes later. That’s a long time to hold soap in your mouth. He talked to me about what happened and got an update. He then waited. He knew Kayla heard him come home, but he didn’t immediately attend to her. He waiting another fifteen minutes, so in total, it was an hour in the corner with soap in her mouth. He told me to stay out of the room but to come in after fifteen minutes.
MIKE SPANKS KAYLA
I didn’t witness it but Mike spanked her for almost all that fifteen minutes before I came into the room. Kayla was sobbing and a drooling soapy mess as she still had the soap in her mouth as I walked in and Mike continued spanking her. I assumed my spanking her would be it, but clearly, it was not. I felt bad because I really spanked her hard and would have probably gone a little easier had I known Mike would spank her again.
Mike then told Kayla to finish writing lines until she got to 100. As she sat down to write, Mike then turned to me and said, “We have another issue to address.”
MIKE SPANKS JEN
Mike said that he wasn’t happy that I spanked Kayla for not undressing when she entered the house. He said I should have reported this to him first before taking any action. He reminded me that since our “therapy session” I’ve actually achieved the mindset I was looking for (as shared on my prior post as well as two posts ago. Now I put that at risk by spanking Kayla without his permission.
So he spanked me using a thin bamboo paddle. He said it would be one spanking for each line Kayla had to write. 100! He stopped at 90 and had Kayla administer the last 10. He told her that if the swats were not to his liking that she would be in for 100 more. Kayla didn’t disappoint! Ouch! He then had Kayla give me a half-dozen swats on each palm with a ruler. He told me perhaps I’d think of this the next time I feel compelled to raise a hand to Kayla’s ass without his permission. He then had me stand in the corner until Kayla finished her lines.
MIKE SPANKS KAYLA AGAIN
He wasn’t quite done with Kayla’s punishment. As part of our writing lines punishments, we may have to write additional lines and/or get spankings for any mistakes or sloppiness in the lines we wrote. Mike found a few lines that were not to his liking, and spanked Kayla again. In all, the spankings she got over the prior two hours were probably the hardest spankings she had received in a long time, and there were a lot of them. So we were in the same boat. Very sore and red asses! In fact, my redness was colored with several purples splotches.
We then had a collective After Care with Mike. He had Kayla apologize to me for behaving in such a way that required immediate action on my part. And I apologized to her for spanking her without Mike’s permission. And that was that, all was forgiven.
So what did I feel about what happened? Nothing out of the ordinary, just a sore bum! That’s just the life of a submissive. I feel Mike acted totally appropriately as clearly both Kayla and I misbehaved.
Ha, I find it funny that I am okay using the word “behave.” I would have previously written something like, “…both Kayla and I failed to adhere to our commitments.” I would have felt “behave” was juvenile or demeaning in some way. Not anymore. It is an appropriate word because submission is all about my behaviors, so when I submit according to my commitment, I am behaving. Simple as that. I think my finding comfort in some of the vocabulary terms that I previously hated is another sign of my progression with a submissive mindset.
Just another example of how words are power, which makes our upcoming contract renegotiation interesting – but that’s for another post.
I marvel in reflection at how definitive our “closing ceremony” is regarding a punishment. No matter how intense the punishment, how emotional either I or Kayla gets, or whatever the circumstances are, when it is over, it is over. All is truly forgiven and no one dwells on it.
That was evidenced by how Kayla reacted afterwards. She looked at me a bit later and said with a wry smile, “Man, I won’t do that again.” To which I replied as I hugged her, “That makes two of us.” We never talked of it again as there is simply no need.
NEXT: 158. Jen’s Simple Tips and my Golden Rule of Domestic Discipline
7 thoughts on “157. A Severe Punishment for Two”
Ewww don’t like him at all. He is gross. You should both run. I have been in BDSM and read a lot about both it and DD he is abusive.
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I understand why you may feel that way from this post, but I assure you he was not and is not abusive (from my point of view). I am curious what it is about this punishment that was the tipping point for you from discipline to abuse?
Is stating that Mike leaves the cabinet doors open a criticism or simply a statement of fact and an acknowledgement that Mike is human? To speak only glowingly of a partner seems disingenuous. I am sure that Donna has a lot of respect for Mike and that that respect was not lessened (in fact it may have increased) by learning about one of his peccadillos. That has always been an issue to me, my own need to deify a dominant. They aren’t gods, not a one, and I need to accept their flawed humanity, and choose to respect and obey regardless. Honestly, just my perspective as a reader, I’d like to see more of the “real” Mike, the fellow who leaves cabinet doors open, so that I don’t feel like you and Kayla got the one divine Dom, and I missed out.
From my reading, it almost seems like Kayla and Donna were playing a round of my dominant is better than yours. I have always hated when other wives, mothers, teachers play that. I have noticed that some people want to portray their situations as perfect. I much prefer honesty about strengths and weaknesses, not as criticism but as a candid portrayal of their lives. I recognize that one must adjust one’s level of candor, but as shared with a friend as close as Donna, it would seem that Kayla’s observation was simply a forthright piece of the overall narrative that only serves to humanize a fellow who already seems larger than life.
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all are great points and not that different from the discussion that took place way back when we put this in our agreement (re I am not to speak negatively of Mike). The issue is more about habit than any particular critique. If it is okay to share a critique with Donna, then why not other friends, my sisters, other family, and so on? It isn’t that he is above reproach, it is only that we agreed that any criticisms would be done privately and within the respectful guidelines of our Maintenance Sessions. Many of my rules, in isolation, have their drawbacks, but collectively serve as the backbone of instilling a pattern of behaviors that I want for myself, for Mike, and for my family. Affording him a high level of respect, is one of those behaviors.
Love your mouth soaping of Kayla
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Thank you for sharing about the transgressions and punishments, ddjennifer! I am always impressed with how consistent Mike is with the two of you…he doesn’t miss a thing! Also, I have much sympathy for Kayla regarding the mouth soaping…and hour is forever, and then to be spanked again with the soap still in her mouth…poor thing. I know she earned it, but I still empathize. I accidentally criticized my Daddy last week and he soaped my mouth after my spanking…but it was at most, 15 minutes of standing in the corner with it in my mouth. In any case…it sure makes for a well-behaved girl doesn’t it!?! 🙂
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