In setting out to blog my plan was to share my approach to DD. I have now done that. Now what?
WHAT TO EXPECT FROM MY POSTS
I plan to post some experiences that were significant milestones towards once again loving life, every moment and every day since beginning our DD journey.
Not sure. Blogging may bring out a different side of me. I sense people like salacious details, like a steamy sexually charged romance novel, but I am not wired to write that way. Not that I won’t, but it just isn’t a default for me to write like that. If you already haven’t figured it out, I tend to be more “performance based” in my thinking – Sharing what my motivation was, what I was thinking, what I intended, what the outcome was.
So, instead of, “I blinked my eyes into focus to dry away the forming tears as the sting of the paddle bit hard into my ass such that I had to catch my breath, eliciting both regret and euphoria while my throbbing nipples called to me for relief…”
I will tend to say, “I was surprised that in addition to some pain, my spanking delivered a certain degree of pleasure…but damn, those nipple clips can hurt”
I’ll try to keep in mind that people like to visualize the emotion, versus just hearing me state the emotion.
I will address one more thing here and one more on another post today.
DO I HAVE BLOGGING RULES AS PART OF MY DD?
Yes and no. I do have an obligation to journal daily, but no obligation to blog. We established that blogging is not journaling and while I blog I still am subject to the terms of our DD Agreement.
I especially have to be honest and safe, and like any pursuit it can not interfere with my Duties and Obligations. So, honesty means I must be truthful in my posts, and not embellish – which is something reinforced by my very first Reward which perhaps will become Story #1 that I will share later. Safety means I had to be safe with our personal information. Mike did agree I could use our real first names. Someone who knows us who finds our blog might reasonably suspect it is about us, but we figure the chances are low and it would be an innocent way for us to “come out” to them (which we have done to one set of friends already. Perhaps that is story #2?).
Mike can read my posts, although thus far he says he hasn’t had the time but does plan to do so. I can’t wait to hear his comments.
Next – 14. Year One Reflections, the Good, the Bad, and the growing Sexual Subtext
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I have been dealing with these issues if needing DD in my life so much. I have been very embarrassed to talk about it. Your blog has opened up a whole new chapter in my life. I struggle with alot of mental health issues and feel as though I need discipline to be able to live a some what normal lifestyle. I am definitely going to be introducing this lifestyles into my relationship. Thank you for making me feel that I am not alone and have gone crazy! I look forward to your future blogs.
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Thank u Lori. Good luck and feel free to contact me if you need any help, encouragement, or just need to vent. My email is in my About.